Is Honesty a Relative Concept?
When we talk about our business and political leaders, not to mention our colleagues, friends and family members, we often mention the importance of honesty, but what do we really mean by that? Are there acceptable deviations to this trait? Is any deviation, no matter how minor or well intentioned, a “slippery slope” to more dishonesty in the future?
Over the years I have found the concept of absolutism to be a barrier in many cases to understanding ourselves as well as others, both of which are extremely important to a leaders, followers and friends alike. Absolutes become even more complicated and difficult to identify when you consider the cross-cultural aspects of globalization, i.e., what is always polite, what is always rude?
So, in the interest of stimulating discussion that will lead to a better understanding, I will pose the question to you: “Is honesty, as it relates to being virtuous and good leader, colleague, or friend, a relative concept?” If you agree that it is, how do you define the limits of acceptability in its relativity?
If you don't agree, do you feel that all people should be branded as inferior, or undesirable in some way, when they stray?
I am very interested in hearing your thoughts on this.
Over the years I have found the concept of absolutism to be a barrier in many cases to understanding ourselves as well as others, both of which are extremely important to a leaders, followers and friends alike. Absolutes become even more complicated and difficult to identify when you consider the cross-cultural aspects of globalization, i.e., what is always polite, what is always rude?
So, in the interest of stimulating discussion that will lead to a better understanding, I will pose the question to you: “Is honesty, as it relates to being virtuous and good leader, colleague, or friend, a relative concept?” If you agree that it is, how do you define the limits of acceptability in its relativity?
If you don't agree, do you feel that all people should be branded as inferior, or undesirable in some way, when they stray?
I am very interested in hearing your thoughts on this.